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		<title>By: Akemi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Akemi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 15:25:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sandra,

Welcome, and thank you for your kind words about this blog. 

Well, sometimes, explanation doesn&#039;t do it. You may explain so well and yet people may not get it. And when you just have to let go, you might just let them go -- with or without explanation. Yes, &quot;doing nothing&quot; about it may be the best move, and they will leave you on their own. They may thin they are leaving you, but in effect, it&#039;s the same thing -- you are letting them go. 

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sandra,</p>
<p>Welcome, and thank you for your kind words about this blog. </p>
<p>Well, sometimes, explanation doesn&#8217;t do it. You may explain so well and yet people may not get it. And when you just have to let go, you might just let them go &#8212; with or without explanation. Yes, &#8220;doing nothing&#8221; about it may be the best move, and they will leave you on their own. They may thin they are leaving you, but in effect, it&#8217;s the same thing &#8212; you are letting them go. </p>
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		<title>By: Sandra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 09:11:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Akemi,

I really enjoy your blog - found it not too long ago. I admire the courage with which you speak your truth and that you speak openly about the spirituality of entrepreneurship. I agree that in this shift people will work for themselves and that work will be the way that people bring their &quot;me&quot;, their creativity into the world.

I have a question for you about letting go...(and I appreciate your sharing about letting go of your teachers). I had a split with one about a year ago that I still feel bad about...I am very grateful to this person. I know what I was doing was the right thing, but I wasn&#039;t able to explain it at the time, and I can understand why she thought I didn&#039;t value her services.

Anyway, question regarding letting go:

How do you let go of friends - good people - who aren&#039;t a &quot;fit&quot; any longer? I believe that you become like the people you associate with. It&#039;s not that I think I&#039;m better than they are...and it&#039;s not that I want to abandon anyone. In one case, it&#039;s a matter of not wanting to invite a certain energy into my home, my life, my environment , if that makes sense.

Maybe I don&#039;t &quot;do&quot; anything - yet I feel a sense of &quot;falling away&quot; and the new coming in, and all these people are being pointed out to me as &quot;not for me&quot;, not where I&#039;m supposed to be...a sense that it&#039;s time to fly (or float using your analogy). These relationships are being highllighted like Dot&#039; s journals above for a reason. 

Thanks again for sharing your insights. We all appreciate it!

Best,

Sandra

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Akemi,</p>
<p>I really enjoy your blog &#8211; found it not too long ago. I admire the courage with which you speak your truth and that you speak openly about the spirituality of entrepreneurship. I agree that in this shift people will work for themselves and that work will be the way that people bring their &#8220;me&#8221;, their creativity into the world.</p>
<p>I have a question for you about letting go&#8230;(and I appreciate your sharing about letting go of your teachers). I had a split with one about a year ago that I still feel bad about&#8230;I am very grateful to this person. I know what I was doing was the right thing, but I wasn&#8217;t able to explain it at the time, and I can understand why she thought I didn&#8217;t value her services.</p>
<p>Anyway, question regarding letting go:</p>
<p>How do you let go of friends &#8211; good people &#8211; who aren&#8217;t a &#8220;fit&#8221; any longer? I believe that you become like the people you associate with. It&#8217;s not that I think I&#8217;m better than they are&#8230;and it&#8217;s not that I want to abandon anyone. In one case, it&#8217;s a matter of not wanting to invite a certain energy into my home, my life, my environment , if that makes sense.</p>
<p>Maybe I don&#8217;t &#8220;do&#8221; anything &#8211; yet I feel a sense of &#8220;falling away&#8221; and the new coming in, and all these people are being pointed out to me as &#8220;not for me&#8221;, not where I&#8217;m supposed to be&#8230;a sense that it&#8217;s time to fly (or float using your analogy). These relationships are being highllighted like Dot&#8217; s journals above for a reason. </p>
<p>Thanks again for sharing your insights. We all appreciate it!</p>
<p>Best,</p>
<p>Sandra</p>
<p>P.S. What is commentluv&#8230;does it help you somehow if I do something with that?</p>
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		<title>By: akemi</title>
		<link>http://reallifespirituality.com/letting-go-to-reinvent-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-1756</link>
		<dc:creator>akemi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 03:28:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dot and Mokihana,

Love the development of this conversation, and I&#039;m so happy and proud you are talking to each other, sharing and helping.
When I was writing the article, I thought of mentioning of purging journals, but opted not to, as I thought it may be a bit too much for many readers.  So glad you guys figured it out.

For me, yes, purging journals was a big deal.  When you are ready, you can do it, I think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dot and Mokihana,</p>
<p>Love the development of this conversation, and I&#8217;m so happy and proud you are talking to each other, sharing and helping.<br />
When I was writing the article, I thought of mentioning of purging journals, but opted not to, as I thought it may be a bit too much for many readers.  So glad you guys figured it out.</p>
<p>For me, yes, purging journals was a big deal.  When you are ready, you can do it, I think.</p>
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