Gratitude And The Gift Of Life – Online Gratitude Journal #5
July 11, 2008 by Akemi
My late grandfather in WWII
My late paternal grandfather was a physician. He served as the headmaster of Shanghai Railroad Hospital in the early 1940’s.
A bit about historical background: This is when Japan was in war with China, leading to WWII on the Asian side of the world. Japan (along with some other western countries) invaded China, took their land and built railroads for Japanese industries and military. The Railroad Hospital was for the local Japanese expatriates.
My grandfather, however, took Chinese patients when he thought necessary. He was a physician, and for him, his mission was to save lives. But this liberal attitude caused friction with other Japanese there, and he returned to Japan after only a few years.
When China reopened its door to Japan in the 1970’s, he went back and saw some of his former patients who were still alive. They welcomed him warmly. (Note that back then, or even today, many Chinese people hate Japanese for what we did to them during the war.) One former patient wrote a beautiful calligraphy that says “Magic hand that saves life” and gave it to my grandfather.
What really happened during the war
This week, Hunter Nuttalll and I wrote joint posts Comparing America And Japan. While discussing Freedom and Opportunities, we talked about the War Relocation Camp the US government enforced during WWII to the people with Japanese ancestries. It is also called Japanese American Internment.
This is not about POWs. POWs are captured combats. This Internment, on the other hand, was forced to civilians living in the US. Many were US citizens. But during the war, many “mainstream” Americans grew suspicious of them because they or their parents were from enemy country, Japan.
The book and movie Snow Falling On Cedars depicts this situation well. I don’t think it works well as a mystery, but it does describe the time and its feelings. Those Japanese Americans were forced to move hundreds (sometimes over a thousand) miles at short notice. They had to sell their houses, farms, businesses, and pretty much everything they had in a few days – and everyone knew about it, so the selling prices were practically nothing (talk about buyer’s market. . .). They had to live in the camp until the end of war. Again, they committed no crimes – the only thing that was wrong was their ancestry.
And I’m writing this not to accuse the US government but to point out what can happen in war. War fuels fear and drives people to do unreasonable things, like putting innocent civilians under custody (well, it was the government’s policy, but the general public in the US supported it) or refusing to treat sick people like many Japanese doctors did in China.
Gratitude for the lesson in life
Today I am grateful for my late grandfather who showed with his own actions the courage and love that transcend politics. I would like to use the power of this gratitude to forgive.
To learn more check out these movies:
The Last Emperor
To see some of the crazy things Japanese did in China during WWII. Learn the history so that we can learn the lesson from it, rather than to get distressed with guilt, shame and blame.
Picture Bride
Comments to the aforementioned post also covered the special history of Hawaii. This movie is about the Japanese immigrants in early days of Hawaii. Bonus: Same good-looking actress, Youki Kudoh, who played Hatsue in Snow Falling On Cedars.
Lost in Translation
You can wrap up with this hysterically funny movie, which is also a beautiful story of love.
My Law of Attraction Dream Money Project, week 4, $800
I’ve spent a good deal of time thinking how I want to use this dream money. The stake is getting high. $800. Do I want a new laptop – maybe an Apple for a change? Do I want several trips to spa to pamper myself?
These are nice, but this week, I want to send this money to charities. I intend to donate 10% of my business profit, so this is really nothing much, but it’s a start. I want to express my gratitude for the gift of life I have.
This is not just to honor my late grandfather. I have heard some sad news around the blogosphere. Alex‘ father-in-law passed. Pearl’s father passed a few month ago. Another friend’s relative is MIA and I’m very concerned. I would like to take a moment to honor these people who are so well remembered.
I have also heard heart-warming news of birth from Peter. Steve recently had his second. Kim and Jason are expecting their first. Talk about the big cycle of life.
So $800 to charities. I like Kiva. I’m also looking at organizations that support artists because I love arts.
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Hi Akemi, glad that you are clearing this issue up that people are wrongfully blamed and ostracized just because of their ancestry. They did no wrong in the first place. In fact, some like your late paternal grandfather, deserved to be honored.
Hi Akemi – thanks for explaining the war relocation camp more. Being from the UK, we don’t learn about these things in school.
Your grandfather sound like an inspirational man – I love the wording of the calligraphy he received. He obviously helped a lot of people.
It is generous of you to give 10% of your profits to charity and 10% is a big amount. I like Kiva too – it is a great idea and it’s helping so many people to help themselves.
Evelyn,
Thank you. This issue has been on my mind for quite some time, so I’m glad I wrote this.
Cath,
Well, I don’t think so many Americans and Japanese know this, either. US government apologized for this internment only very recently (when Bill Clinton was president, if my memory serves right)
Kiva is great. I love it because it treats the people in the third world as our equal counterparts — they need help but they are still smart capable people, and they want to start businesses.
Hi Akemi – that was a very touching story about your grandfather, and I think it’s awesome that you’re thinking about giving back to the community.
This is the second post I’ve read from your blog after subscribing from reading your last article. I’m glad I did!
Al at 7Ps last blog post..The Hidden Water of Life
Al,
Thank you for your kind words and your support!
Hi Akemi, I think you need to study more into the evacuation and relocation of the Nikkei during WWII. “Snow Falling On Cedars” is a poor example of what happened during this time. The US Govt. was not wrong in rounding up the Issei, which happened to include their American-born kids. Look what Japan did to our civilians during WWII. There should be a movie about that. See my website for some real history:
http://home.comcast.net/~eo9066/Intro.html
Hi Akemi – It’s very kind of you to honor my dad along with your grandfather and giving back to the community in their honor. Thank you so much.
I’m really touched with the story you’ve shared. Your grandpa was indeed a very special man, loved by so many. Goes to show how love can conquer all ill feelings…
Wes,
Thank you for your comment.
I have not seen a movie of what the US did to the Japanese civilians (like the air raids) but I’ll let that pass . . .
Pearl,
I hope you are feeling better. Take care of yourself.
Excellent post, Akemi. I love that you’ve chosen to use your blog ad revenue to support Kiva entrepreneurs (I do this, too!).
Thanks for the supportive thoughts regarding my missing sister-in-law. The mystery of it is the hardest part for the family now.
MMND,
You are one of my role models — and I’m blessed with great role models.
My prayer goes to your SIL.
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